An opening of one's knowledge,capabilities, vision and guidance. The Kenaz is about creating a relationship,learning and allowing room for interpretation. When you are in the darkness,an opening with light is the best and most gracious thing to have bestowed upon you. This is a great time for putting energies into new opportunities. Come share my world as I see it.

Sunday, November 11, 2007

Lest We Forget Our Fallen Heros in Afghanistan









Canadian Soldier Death Toll Stands at 71 in Afghanistan

September 24 , 2007






Cpl. Nathan Hornburg


Cpl. Nathan Hornburg


Killed while working to repair a broken tread on a leopard tank.






August 26, 2007






Maj. Raymond Ruckpaul


Maj. Raymond Ruckpaul


Maj. Raymond Ruckpaul was found dead in his room at about 7:30 a.m. from a gunshot wound.

Neither murder, suicide nor accidental discharge of the firearm have been ruled out as possible reasons for the death.






August 22, 2007







Master Cpl. Christian Duchesne


Master-Cpl.-Christian-Duchesne

Master Warrant Office Mario Mercier


Master-Warrant-Office-Mario-Mercier


Two Canadian soldiers were killed when their light armoured vehicle hit an improvised explosive device during a patrol.






August 19, 2007






Pte Simon Longtin


Pte Simon Longtin


Pte Simon Longtin was killed after the vehicle he was traveling in, a LAV III, struck an Improvised Explosive Device (IED).






July 4, 2007








Capt. Matthew Johnathan Dawe


Capt. Matthew Johnathan Dawe

Cpl. Cole Bartsch



Cpl.-Cole-Bartsch

Pte. Lane Watkins


Pte. Lane Watkins








Master-Cpl. Colin Bason


Master-Cpl. Colin Bason

Cpl. Jordan Anderson


Cpl.-Jordan-Anderson

Capt. Jefferson Francis


Capt. Jefferson Francis


Six more killed when a roadside bomb hit their vehicle.






June 20, 2007








Sgt.-Christos-Karigiannis


Cpl. Stephen Frederick Bouzane


Cpl. Stephen Frederick Bouzane

Pte. Joel Vincent Wiebe


Pte. Joel Vincent Wiebe


All of 3rd Battalion Princess Patricia's Canadian Light Infantry, were killed when their vehicle hit a roadside bomb near a forward-operating base at Sperwan Ghar, west of Kandahar.






June 11, 2007






Trooper Darryl Caswell


Trooper Darryl Caswell


Trooper Darryl Caswell was killed when the armoured vehicle he was driving was ripped apart by an improvised explosive device en route to a remote NATO base in Afghanistan since 2002.






May 30, 2007






Master Cpl. Darrell Jason Priede


Master Cpl. Darrell Jason Priede


Master Cpl. Darrell Jason Priede was the 56th Canadian service member killed since 2002.






May 25, 2007






Corp. Matthew McCully


Corp. Matthew McCully


Killed when a road-side bomb exploded near him during Operation Hoover






April 18, 2007






Master Cpl. Anthony Klumpenhouwer


Master Cpl. Anthony Klumpenhouwer

A special operations soldier died in an accident when he fell while climbing a communications tower.






April 11, 2007







Master Cpl. Allan Stewart


Master-Cpl.-Allan-Stewart

Trooper Patrick James Pentland


Trooper Patrick James Pentland


Both of the Royal Canadian Dragoons, based in Petawawa, Ont. - died after their vehicle hit a roadside bomb in an area about 38 km west of Kandahar City.






April 8, 2007








Sgt. Donald Lucas


Sgt. Donald Lucas

Pte. Kevin Kennedy


Pte. Kevin Kennedy

Cpl. Aaron E. Williams


Cpl. Aaron E. Williams








Pte. David R. Greenslade


Pte. David R. Greenslade

Cpl. Christopher P. Stannix


Cpl. Christopher P. Stannix

Cpl. Brent Poland


Cpl. Brent Poland


Six Canadian soldiers died in southern Afghanistan as a result of injuries sustained when the vehicle they were travelling in hit an explosive device.






March 6, 2007






Cpl. Kevin Megeney


Cpl. Kevin Megeney


A member of 1st Battalion Nova Scotia Highlanders is the 45th Canadian military death in Afghanistan since 2002. Megeney was shot through the chest and left lung in what's believed to be a "friendly fire" incident.






November 27, 2006







Chief Warrant Officer Albert Storm


Chief Warrant Officer Albert Storm

Sgt. Maj. Bob Girouard


Sgt. Maj. Bob Girouard


Both were killed on the outskirts of Kandahar when a suicide car bomber attacked a convoy of military vehicles.






October 14, 2006







Sgt. Darcy Tedford


Sgt. Darcy Tedford

Pte. Blake Williamson


Pte. Blake Williamson


Both killed by gunfire and rocket-propelled grenades.






October 7, 2006






Mark Andrew Wilson


Mark Andrew Wilson


Killed when his armoured vehicle was hit by a roadside explosion in the Panjwaii district.






October 3, 2006







Sgt. Craig Gillam


Sgt. Craig Gillam

Cpl. Robert Mitchell


Cpl. Robert Mitchell


Both killed in series of mortar, rocket attacks just west of Kandahar city.






September 29, 2006






Pte. Josh Klukie


Pte. Josh Klukie


Killed by an improvised explosive device, while he was conducting a foot patrol in the Panjwaii district in Kandahar province.






September 18, 2006









Cpl Shane Keating


Cpl Shane Keating

Cpl Keith Morley


Cpl Keith Morley

Pte. David Byers


Pte. David Byers

Cpl. Glen Arnold


Cpl. Glen Arnold


Killed when a suicide bomber riding a bicycle detonated explosives in the Panjwai area.






September 4, 2006






Pte. Mark Anthony Graham


Pte. Mark Anthony Graham


killed in a friendly fire incident involving an American A-10 Warthog aircraft.






September 3, 2006








Warrant Officer Richard Francis Nolan


Warrant Officer Richard Francis Nolan


Warrant Officer Frank Robert Mellish


Warrant Officer Frank Robert Mellish

Sergeant Shane Stachnik


Sergeant Shane Stachnik

Pte. William Jonathan James Cushley


Pte. William Jonathan James Cushley


All four were killed in fierce fighting in southern Afghanistan.






August 22, 2006






Corp. David Braun


Corp. David Braun


Killed by a suicide bomber outside the gates of Camp Nathan Smith in Kandahar City.






August 11, 2006






Cpl. Andrew James Eykelenboom


Cpl. Andrew James Eykelenboom


Killed when his vehicle was hit by a suicide bomber.






Aug. 9, 2006






Master Cpl. Jeffrey Scott Walsh


Master Cpl. Jeffrey Scott Walsh


Was shot in a "weapons related accident" unrelated to enemy fire.






Aug. 5, 2006


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Master Cpl. Raymond Arndt


Master Cpl. Raymond Arndt


Killed when a G-Wagon making a supply run collided with a civilian truck.






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Aug. 3, 2006








Cpl. Christopher Jonathan Reid


Cpl. Christopher Jonathan Reid

Sgt. Vaughn Ingram


Sgt. Vaughn Ingram

Cpl. Bryce Jeffrey Keller


Cpl. Bryce Jeffrey Keller


Cpl. Christopher Jonathan Reid died overnight when a Canadian Light Armoured Vehiclewas struck by a roadside bomb. Later the same say, three more Canadian soldiers were killed during a separate attack with rocket propelled grenades near Kandahar city - Sgt. Vaughn Ingram, Cpl. Bryce Jeffrey Keller, and the fourth was not identified.






July 22, 2006







Cpl. Francisco Gomez


Cpl. Francisco Gomez

Cpl. Jason Patrick Warren


Cpl. Jason Patrick Warren


Both killed by a suicide bomber in Kandahar






July 9, 2006






Cpl. Anthony Joseph Boneca


Cpl. Anthony Joseph Boneca


Killed as Canadian military and Afghan security forces were pushing through an area west of Kandahar City.






May 17, 2006






Capt. Nichola Goddard


Capt. Nichola Goddard


Killed during battle against Taliban forces in the Panjwai region.






April 22, 2006









Cpl. Matthew Dinning


Cpl. Matthew Dinning

Bombardier Myles Mansell


Bombardier Myles Mansell

Lieut. William Turner


Lieut. William Turner

Cpl. Randy Payne


Cpl. Randy Payne


All were killed when their armoured vehicle was hit by a roadside bomb near Gombad.






March 28, 2006






Pte. Robert Costall


Pte. Robert Costall


Killed in a firefight with Taliban insurgents in the desert north of Kandahar






March 5, 2006






Master Cpl. Timothy Wilson


Master Cpl. Timothy Wilson


Diea as a result of injuries suffered in the LAV III crash on March 2 in Afghanistan. Wilson died in hospital in Germany.






March 2, 2006






Cpl. Paul Davis


Cpl. Paul Davis


Killed when the LAV III he was travelling in collided with a civilian taxi just west of Kandahar during a routine patrol.






Jan. 15, 2006






Diplomat Glyn Berry


Diplomat Glyn Berry


Killed by a suicide bomber in Kandahar.






Nov. 24, 2005






Pte. Braun Scott Woodfield


Pte. Braun Scott Woodfield


Killed in a traffic accident involving his light-armoured vehicle (LAV III) northeast of Kandahar.






Jan. 27, 2004






Cpl. Jamie Murphy


Cpl. Jamie Murphy


Killed by a suicide bomber while patrolling near Camp Julien in an Iltis jeep.






Oct. 2, 2003







Sgt. Robert Alan Short


Sgt. Robert Alan Short

Cpl. Robbie Christopher Beerenfenger


Cpl. Robbie Christopher Beerenfenger


Both killed when their Iltis jeep struck a roadside bomb outside Camp Julien near Kabul.






April 17, 2002









Sgt. Marc D. Leger


Sgt. Marc D. Leger

Cpl. Ainsworth Dyer


Cpl. Ainsworth Dyer

Pte. Richard A. Green


Pte. Richard A. Green

Pte. Nathan Smith


Pte. Nathan Smith


All four were killed by friendly fire when an American fighter jet dropped a laser-guided 225-kilogram bomb on the soldiers during a training exercise near Kandahar.



Peace.

Friday, November 09, 2007

Prosperous day today in Hamilton

Feds come up with their share of the money

It's now official. Canada's Environent Minister has committed the federal government's 30 million dollar share, towards the 90 million dollar cleanup of Randle Reef. The province's 30 million is already in place with the rest coming from local sources. It clears the way for work to begin on the containment of coal tar and other polluted sediment at Hamilton Harbour's toxic hotspot. The eight-year project is likely to be completed in 2016. Sources of local funding have yet to be finalized, but Hamilton's Mayor remains confident that it will include contributions from Hamilton industries.

Plans to Revive the Core

Three major private projects promise to boost downtown Hamilton with lights, music and better parking came to light today.

The demolition of the old HMP dealership at the corner of Bay and Main streets is underway to make room for a new 15-storey Hilton Homewood Suites. Just blocks away, planning is in the works to tear down a burned out apartment building at the corner of Hess and King streets to build a concert theatre the size of Toronto's Massey Hall.

The concert theatre, based on the House of Blues venue in Dallas, will make the village an attraction year round and help with noise complaints by bringing music inside. Hopefully this will also bring more restaurants to the village, providing more choice for those who are not into the bar scene. The approximately $15-million project is set to start in the spring and take about 18 months to complete. A new parking structure already approved between Hess and Caroline will be perfectly placed to serve concert goers.

On the other side of downtown, the city's new development corporation has made its first offer on a parking lot behind the old Sandbar Tavern. The $15-million to $20-million proposal features multiple floors of parking combined with retail and residential units.

These projects will complement the new Hilton hotel, which saw it's first bulldozer action last week. The hotel will bring life back to a rotting core.

Later,
Kenaz

Tuesday, November 06, 2007

Game show morons

Watch these members of an "Eklusive" club embarrass themselves on national television.

Wheel of Fortune Moron
This lady flubs an extremely easy puzzle after winning 10k.


What Rotates Around the Earth? A better question is What planet is this French idiot from?


This women knows!


Hope you enjoyed!
Later,
Kenaz

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Threats to Marina Batkis are from sick people not animal lovers

The twisted dog tale began last month when Ellen DeGeneres adopted a dog. The dog was not able to get along with DeGeneres' cats, she gave the dog to DeGeneres' hairdresser. This violated some rule of Batkis' animal adoption company which stated if an adoption did not work out, the animal had to be returned.

DeGeneres acknowledged she erred but said her hairdresser and her family should not be punished.

"This is so insane," a calmer DeGeneres said on her talk show Wednesday. "It's just the dog needs to go to the family."

Batkis has refused to back down and returned with a rather terse reply.

"If Ellen wants to place dogs and decide what's a good home, then she should start her own rescue group," she told "Inside Edition." "But I'm the one doing this and I know what I'm doing."


This story needed to end there, instead a bunch of ignorant S.O.B's who do not give a crap about animals, instead take pride in being "professional" hate mongers. This type of person with insult and make cheap death threats to anyone and justify it, in this case as being an animal lover.

Batkis company did not hurt any animals, they where only standing by their policies which state no animal will be adopted to any family with children under the age of fifteen. The rule could be more flexible, but that's not the point.

What gives the right for anyone to make death threats against Batkis and threaten to bomb her business? None.

To the moron who likened her to a Nazi, get a clue and a life.

Later,
Kenaz

Thursday, October 11, 2007

Teacher Accused Of Stapling Paper To Student's Head

I don't do to many bizarre news stories, but when you find stories like this you can't resist. This is straight out of the what the f***K is your malfunction category.

A fourth-grade teacher's aide in Indiana has resigned after he was accused of trying to staple a piece of paper to a student's forehead.

The incident happened at Jefferson Elementary School in the Plymouth school district. Superintendent John Hill would not identify the aide or the class but confirmed the story and said: "We're just sorry that it happened. We don't expect our people to behave in that manner. That person is no longer employed by the school corporation."

But Natalie Wilson, the fourth-grader's mother, is furious and tels the South Bend Tribune that the principal called her shortly before her daughter got on the school bus Monday, more than three hours after the incident occurred.

"I should have been told immediately," Wilson said. The mother said her daughter told her she had picked up a Post-It note from the floor and stuck it to her forehead. The teacher told her to remove the paper from her forehead or he would staple it there permanently.

But when the student failed to remove the paper, he approached her with a stapler and pushed it against her forehead.

Wilson says: There were "two holes in her head. It actually punctured her skin. This was not an accident."

Later,
Kenaz

Monday, October 08, 2007

Happy Birthday Walter Gretzky


Happy 69th birthday to the most humble of Canadian story telling legends. Walter Gretzky is a charismatic gentleman with a gift for making a complete stranger feel like an old friend within seconds. In my mind this man is Canada's ambassador of culture, the epitome of the kindness that we are capable of.

Later,
Kenaz

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Buying a dishwasher shouldn't be hard...

...but my little counter top dishwasher purchase turned into the quest for the holy grail for frig sakes. First I went looking for the perfect make and model for my kitchen that isn't equipped for a full built in model. A few clicks of the mouse and I found this Danby model. Perfect for me, energy efficient, the right price, things are going perfect. Than the wheels fell off, I wanted to buy in online and have it delivered. Four different American shopping websites, all said they shipped to Canada, hit the send order button, get an email back from each one saying oops! we said most products to Canada but not the one you want.

Two days later, I learn from the Danby site that a couple of stores in Hamilton carry this dishwasher, great! I phone Goemans Appliances, they don't sell this model. But! they say Walmart has it. I phoned Walmart at Eastgate, closest to me, they have one, but! its a display model and they can't sell it to me. I phoned the other Walmart's on Hamilton Mountain. First one don't have it, finally the second one has it. Oh please I beg! can I have it shipped down to Eastgate.

Oh sorry we really don't do that because it would require a manager to drive it down personally. I try my case, I don't drive and would be a costly cab ride. A little more chit chat and I throw in that I work for Hotz Environmental and we handle the removal of the freon in all Walmarts damaged fridges, air conditioners and the like.
I'm not sure if this did it, but at least I got her talking to a manager.

Long story short, that was Wednesday last week, I got a call back yes indeed I was getting it shipped down, but it will take five days. Great it only took god six days to create the world, five days to drive twenty minutes. Any way, I got a call yesterday afternoon while I was out in Westdale, to say the dishwasher was in. Finally! A bus trek across the city, which I almost didn't make uninjured. Along Main Street downtown some moron pulled right in front of the bus, I guess she needed a coffee or some oriental food real bad. If it wasn't for the drivers incredible reaction time, their would have been one less stupid person on the planet and my head would been permanently part of an HSR bus seat.

Anyway, I make to Walmart, can't find a salesperson in appliances, finally get the customer service women I talked to on the phone, she tracks down the dishwasher down on a truck. Apparently the donkey died that day or something, and it takes a good ten minutes for my washer to come up. Finally I get it purchased and head out the door. Oh no so fast! the clerk didn't scan it right and off goes the door buzzer. Sir can I see your receipt, asks the door monitor, I show it to her and I assure her, it I wanted to steal something I would pick something I could actually fit in my pocket.

Finally get the dishwasher home, hooked up and start washing. Of course the drain hose doesn't connect right and I get water all over my rug. Shut it off, reconnect the hose, finally some piece of mind and clean dishes. No wonder I downed a six pack.

Here's the beast that I finally tamed.


On a far more serious note, the entertainment and art world lost to greats this week. Condolences go out for Marcel Marceau and iconic artist Ken Danby. Danby known most famous for his work "At the Crease".

Later,
Kenaz

Sunday, September 16, 2007

Hotz Environmental




Hotz Environmental Services Inc. is a leader in the field of collection, transportation and recycling/disposal of Household Hazardous Waste (HHW).Waste is collected from communities throughout North America and transported to our fully permitted transfer facility, located in Hamilton, Ontario. The Hotz Household Hazardous Waste Transfer Facility has been designed to exceed all applicable government regulations. Every health and emergency precaution has been taken to ensure the safety of the general public as well as their employees. Which I am proud to be one.

What Is Household Hazardous Waste?
Many items in your home can be dangerous to your health and the enviornment. The following is a room by room list of products and items that should not be placed in the garbage or down the drain:

Bathroom

· Aftershave
· Batteries
· Household cleaner
· Nail polish and nail polish remover
· Needles, Syringes
· Medication and Vitamins
· Perfume
· Compact fluorescent light bulbs
· Tile cleaner
· Toilet cleaner
· Tub cleaner
· Window cleaner

Garage

· Anti-freeze
· Auto body filler
· Brake fluid
· Car batteries
· Car cleaners
· Car wax
· Driveway sealer
· Fire Extinguishers
· Flammables
· Fluorescent tubes and compact fluorescent light bulbs
· Gasoline
· Glass cleaners
· Marine paint
· Motor oil
· Oil filters
· Propane cylinders
· Propane tanks
· Roof patch
· Small compressed gas cylinders
· Thermostats
· Turpentine
· Windshield washer fluid

Garden Shed

· Batteries
· Bug killers
· Fertilizer
· Flea powder
· Herbicides
· Insecticides
· Pesticides
· Pool chemicals
· Rat poison
· Rodent poison
· Slug bait
· Weed killer
· Asbestos (by appointment only)

Kitchen

· Abrasive powders
· Ammonia based cleaners
· Batteries
· Cooking oil
· Disinfectants
· Drain openers
· Fire Extinguishers
· Fluorescent tubes and compact fluorescent light bulbs
· Floor polish
· Furniture polish
· Oven cleaners
· Metal cleaners
· Metal polish
· Smoke and carbon monoxide detectors containing batteries (if batteries are removed, no longer considered hazardous)

Laundry Room

· Air fresheners (aerosol cans)
· Batteries
· Butane lighters
· Chlorine bleach
· Detergents
· Fluorescent tubes and compact fluorescent light bulbs
· Fire Extinguishers
· Flea collars, sprays
· Lighter fluid
· Stain removers
· Shoe care products

Workshop

· Batteries
· Fluorescent tubes and compact fluorescent light bulbs
· Fire Extinguishers
· Glues and cements
· Mothballs
· Paint stripper
· Paint thinner
· Paints (latex, oil, enamel)
· Turpentine
· Rust removers
· Spray paints
· Wood preservatives
· Wood stain
· Wood varnish

Any other household items that have the following symbols on them are considered to be household hazardous waste.A good rule of thumb is if your not comfortable dumping the product down your drain, then it's a good chance it's harardous, bring it in.


Household Hazardous Waste brochure



Commercial Product Less Toxic Alternatives

Bleach
Borax (available in the detergent section of most grocery stores)

Dish detergent grease cutter
1/2 cup baking soda + lemon juice

Drain cleaner
Plunger followed by 1/2 cup baking soda + 1/2 cup vinegar + 2L of boiling water

General household cleaner (abrasive)
Baking soda

Grease Remover
Borax on a damp cloth

Ink spot remover
Cold water + 1 tbsp. cream of tartar + 1 tbsp. lemon juice

Linoleum floor cleaner
1 cup white vinegar + 2L of water

Mildew remover
Equal parts vinegar and salt

Oven cleaner
2 tbsp. liquid soap + 2 tsp. Borax + warm water

Spot remover
Club soda, lemon juice, salt

Toilet bowl cleaner
Paste of Borax and lemon juice

Tub and tile cleaner
1/4 cup baking soda + 1/2 cup white vinegar + warm water

Window cleaner
2tbsp. vinegar in 1L warm water

What Is Not HHW?
·Ammunition

oTo dispose of ammunition contact the local police department

·Bio-hazardous waste

·Empty paint cans, aerosol cans
.If the cans are empty, remove lid and place them in your blue box

·Explosives
oTo dispose of explosives contact the local police department

·Flares
oTo dispose of flares contact the local police department

·Incandescent light bulbs
oPut in your garbage

·Radioactive waste

oContact:

§Atomic Energy Canada
§Ministry of Environment

·Reactive chemicals
oCall the City at: (905) 546 CITY (2489)

When and Where?
Year-Round Drop Off

Household Hazardous Waste (HHW) can be dropped off at no charge at the City's deopt locations.

239 Lottridge St. N. (north of Barton, Between Gage and Sherman).
Monday, Tuesday : 9:00 am - 3:00 pm
Wednesday : 9:00 am - 8:00 pm
Thursday to Saturday : 9:00 am - 3:00 pm

Drop-Off Requirements
Sharps must be packaged in a sealed rigid container, preferrably an approved sharps container that can be found at most pharmacies. Other options include an empty bleach bottle or metal coffee can with lids in tact and sealed. Sharps in glass containers will not be accepted.
Limit of 8 Fluorescent lights (per visit)
Limit of 1 thermostat (per visit)

Disposal of Household Hazardous Waste is free for Hamilton residents to a maximum of 40 litres.

This service is not provided free of charge for the following sectors:

• Commercial
• Industrial
• Institutional

MORE FAQ'S


Household Hazardous Waste - Past, Present and Future

Improper disposal of many household products in drains, sewers, backyards or landfill sites, is not only hazardous to public health but also contaminates our water supply and other natural resources.

Averages show that, in the last ten years, less than 10% of all householders participated in HHW programs offered in their communities. Yet the number of hazardous products, available to purchase, continues to grow. Many communities are now implementing HHW programs with frequent, regularly scheduled collection dates and satellite locations, in an attempt to make the programs more convenient and accessible for their residents.

At Hotz Environmental Services, all of their innovative initiatives are directed toward designing programs which are streamlined and cost effective for our clients to operate. For example our International Paint Recycling program entails taking all the paint that comes in and first seperating them into acrylic latex and alkyd oil and then seperating them further into eight basic colours(red,green,blue,yellow,white,beige,black/grey,brown). Each colour then goes through a series of filters and quality control before being sold to clients in six different countries, like Mexico and Cuba.

Later,
Kenaz

Sunday, September 09, 2007

Fall Tarot and Rune Reading

Since my Spring and Summer Rune and Tarot readings have been surprisingly accurate, I did in fact leave a dead end temp job down at Tomco Steel for a job with meaning down at Hotz Enviourmental.Hotz is a company that doesn't bs you, if your a hard worker they appreciate it by offering you a full time position. I finished up my prerequisate 450 hours two weeks ago, got hired, a two dollar raise, now it's another 50 days until I get into the Teamsters Union and another 3 and a half dollar raise. Saying that, I've decided to do again. Here's my Fall reading, and it looks like the fall has some interesting things in store for me.

TAROT

Review of the ten card Celtic Spread.

The the deck is first spread out face down in the middle of the table and mixed up thoroughly. The cards are then gathered and played out one card at a time, face up as follows.

The Celtic Cross spread is one of the most common tarot spreads. There is a cross in the center, with a row of 4 cards along the side. This spread will provide a fairly in-depth look at a situation including past, present and external influences. Beginners may want to start with a spread with fewer cards.

This is a more advanced spread utilising ten cards (see diagram). It is unusual as card number two is placed sideways across card number one. This card should be read as dignified when interpreting the meaning. The cards should be turned over one at a time and addressed individually before being brought together to present a unified reading.

1. The Question: This card relates to the question that is being asked and also the motives behind it. It also indicates the emotions or issues on the seeker's mind.
2. Possible Obstacles: This card has an important influence on the seeker or the question that is being asked.
3. The Past: The background to the need for the requested question to be answered. The history that produced the question itself
4. The Present: The here and now. Present emotional states and feelings
5. The Near Future: That which lies just around the corner.
6. The Far Future: That which can be anticipated but not yet seen.
7. Personal attitudes: The Seeker's attitudes towards the question that has been asked. Also an indicator of how they see themselves.
8. An Outside Perspective: How those around the Seeker see or interpret the issue at hand.
9. Hopes and Fears: The positive and negative connotations of the question.
10. The outcome: The final result or answer.

TAROT
Your Question: What does the fall have in store for me?

Celtic Spread


Quintessence:


Cover: General atmosphere

Knight of Swords
SOMEONE UPSETS YOU BY CAUSING MISCHIEF WITH BAD INTENT.

Crossing: Opposing forces

The World
YOU WILL BE SUCCESSFUL IN YOUR GOALS AND ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS, THERE IS A POSSIBILITY OF TRAVEL AND CONTACT WITH PEOPLE FROM OTHER COUNTRIES OR AREAS.

Foundation: Past basis

The Chariot
YOU MAY BE GOING ON A TRIP IN THE NEAR FUTURE, THIS TRIP MAY BE DONE BY LAND AND BE WITHIN DRIVING DISTANCE OF YOUR HOME.

Behind You: Passing influences

Ten of Wands
A SITUATION OR PROBLEM HAS LASTED A LONG TIME, AND YOU HAVE YET TO SOLVE IT, BUT SOON THIS WILL COME TO AN END.

Crowining: Possible future

Nine of Wands
YOU ARE EXPERIENCING A PAUSE IN A SITUATION JUST BEFORE THINGS START MOVING AGAIN.

Before You: Soon to come

Ten Of Cups
YOU SUCCESSFULLY REACH YOUR GOALS, AND ARE CONTENT AND HAPPY WITH YOUR LIFE, HOME AND FAMILY WILL BE YOUR PRIORITY AT THIS TIME.

Hopes: Goals or aspirations

The Emperor
A POWERFUL MALE OR STRONG MINDED WOMAN WILL ENTER YOUR LIFE WITH THE INTENTION TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE THROUGH A NEW PARTNERSHIP OR RELATIONSHIP.

Opinions: What others think

Five of Cups
YOU ARE LOSING INTEREST IN A RELATIONSHIP OR SITUATION, AND ARE CONTEMPLATING ENDING IT.

Feelings: Fears

Six of Pentacles
YOU ARE OR WILL BE GENEROUS OR KIND TO SOMEONE ELSE, THROUGH YOUR ATTENTION, EMOTIONAL, AND OR FINANCIAL SUPPORT.

Outcome: Resolution

Ace of Swords
YOU ARE LOOKING FOR THE TRUTH ABOUT A SITUATION, AND ONCE YOU FIND IT YOU WILL MAKE A DECISION THAT WILL HAVE A MAJOR IMPACT ON YOUR LIFE.

Quintessence:

Death
THE OLD SITUATION MUST COME TO AN END, SO A NEW ORDER CAN BEGIN.

RUNE:What does the fall have in store for me?


The Cross spread is used to plot the arc of your life and the forces acting on it. It is the most popular spread, giving a very complete view of the situation. Ice Runes are most commonly used for questions about struggle, conflict, and achievement.

The left rune represents an important element of the past. Perth is the rune of chance and gambling. Throw the dice, read your fate. Gaming is a fine way to pass the night...as long as one is careful. Games of chance have outcomes that are hidden from us, and as such Perth represents secrets unknown. Perth symbolizes enjoyment and wild abandon, but be watchful, for Perth is also the rune of mystery and the outcomes unexpected. You cannot lose if you do not play, but neither can you win...

The middle rune represents a deciding element of the present. Inguz is the rune of completion and fertility. The presence of this rune suggests that tasks which have been initiated will come to fruition. This rune is associated with Ing and Frey, it is this connection that explains its connotations of both fertility and sexuality. The variant of this rune shown here is reminiscent of the twin strands of life, and of the challenge and rewards of bringing together things complimentary.

The top rune represents a force that works for you. Tyr is the symbol of the warrior. This rune most represents masculine force and potency, and frequently victory in battle. Beware though, for this rune represents directly the Norse god whose name it bears - Tyr stands out in legend for having sacrificed his hand that he might bind Fenrir, a monstrous wolf that threatens to swallow the world. As such, this rune is known to portend a great victory that can be bought with a terrible sacrifice. Tyr is also the god of law, frequently placed in such position above Odin. In this aspect, protection of justice may be had by this rune.

The bottom Rune represents a force that works against you. Wunjo is the rune of Joy. Since joy is least frequently a solitary emotion, this rune often represents mutual or communal bliss. Wunjo is also seen as a rune of the gods and a rune of perfection, carrying with it the elation that blazes from the creation of a perfect work - perhaps this is the true joy of the gods, that they can create perfection. That aside, this rune does not focus on the struggle for perfection or on our inevitable imperfections, but rather on a job well done and the satisfaction that comes from it.

The right rune represents the critical element of the future, at the core of the final outcome. Man refers to Mankind and your interaction with the whole of human population. This rune is reversed, suggesting a separation from your fellow man. There is a lack of harmony in your interaction with others, either because you do not accept society or society does not accept you. Alternatively, this rune may also represent your separation from nature, and your ability to rise above the base level of being. As the rune is reversed, this may suggest an incomplete level of spiritual attainment or an intellectual block.

Later,
Kenaz

Tuesday, September 04, 2007

Thanks again Cats!...For another stinker of a season

Thank god smell-o-vision hasn't been invented. If it was, the Hamilton Tiger Cats would have to be fined by the CRTC for causing an environmental heath hazard. Anyone passing by the stadium yesterday, oblivious to how bad our football team is, would wonder if 28,600 zombies had indeed invaded.

I was not one of them attending this game, nor any game for the last five years, or in fact no games until an owner plans to stop treating fans like complete morons. 'Sideshow' Bob Young spent money on increasing the number of beer concessions and food stands, I guess hoping that if he fills the peons who attend the games with enough overpriced booze, msg dogs and cheese wiz nachos it will dull their senses to the absolute overpriced talentless crap he put on the field. Jesse Lumsden excluded, the tailback is Hamilton's only star.

Unfortunately, Jesse was injured for this game. That meant many who where at home or in their favourite watering hole watching this Labour Day Clunker against Toronto were treated to Tommy Chang completing only 5-15 passes, before mercifully being replaced by Maas in the second half. A Maas to Brock Ralph 88-yard pass and run was the only time I cheered all game. 8-15, and how much do we pay Maas that that fine performance? way to much!

The Cats got spanked 32-14 by the Toronto Argonauts and Tommy Chang showed his maturity by taking it for the team and admitted they where bad. Too bad the coaching staff and management aren't as mature. They immediately try to spin this awful performance into another game of learning. Look Bob, we are 1-8! and out of the playoffs for the fifth time in six years! And all you can tell fans is by a lame "We're Restless" shirt. Enough of the PT Barnum managerial philosophy, it will be a cold day in He double hockey sticks, before I put my butt onto a piece of plank up in the stands again unless the quality of play improves drastically and now.

Hamiltonian's love their Cats, but we deserve more than a two bit shell game being played on us.

Later,
Kenaz

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Saying goodbye to Lynn Johnston and the Patterson's

Syndicated in more than 2,000 newspapers, collected in 35 bestselling books and adapted into six animated specials (and a popular animated series), Lynn Johnston’s For Better or For Worse is one of the greatest success stories in the history of Canadian comics. Now, after nearly 30 years of writing and drawing the domestic drama about the ever-expanding Patterson clan, the Corbeil, Ont.-based cartoonist is winding down the final storyline of her enduring strip....(more)



During that time, loyal readers of FBorFW have witnessed Elly’s return to the workforce after being a stay-at-home mom, John’s mid-life crisis, the coming out of Michael’s friend Lawrence, and the death of Farley, the Patterson’s family dog — which was so contentious, Peanuts creator Charles Schulz threatened to have Snoopy hit by a bus if Johnston didn’t bring the prized pooch back to life.


Lynn Johnston gave this great quote when asked about her desicion to handle the retirement of her strip, different from two other great comic strip writers whom I adore greatly.

Q: Traditionally, cartoonists who wanted to retire from the daily grind of newspaper strips had two options: hand their creation over to another cartoonist [what’s called a “legacy strip”] or quit and take the strip down with you, the choice of Bill Watterson (Calvin and Hobbes) and Gary Larson (The Far Side). Why not follow their lead?




A: Initially that was my plan, and I had sort of speculated on what type of work would fill that space, because that little piece of real estate in the newspaper is a pretty coveted one. Then when Universal Press [her syndicate] said that they felt there was real opportunity to run the older strips, I thought about it and decided that their argument was a good one. Because there were many, many papers that did not pick up the strip in the first 10 years, so in a lot of markets those first 10 years were never seen.
But then there were other editors, like at the Toronto Star, the Vancouver Sun, the Chicago Tribune, who have been wonderful supporters right from Day 1, and I didn’t want to sell those editors the same material without adding something new. So that was my thinking. It would not only give me the satisfaction of still being in touch with the characters, but I would also be providing some new material for the editors and readers.


"FBorFW" is as Canadaian as maple syrup and held in the same esteem as Wayne Gretzky. We love you, Lynn and the Patterson's will sadly be missed.

Later,
Kenaz

Monday, August 27, 2007

Jamie Foxx opens his big mouth about Michael Vick

In an "Access Hollywood" interview Jamie Foxx was to talk about his upcoming projects. The conversation switched to the Michael Vick case and Jamie didn't know that Vick had pleaded guilty yet. Foxx never one to shy away from controversial subjects, may want to think about this comment.

“It’s a cultural thing, I think,” Jamie said. “Most brothers didn’t know that, you know. I used to see dogs fighting in the neighborhood all the time. I didn’t know that was Fed time. So, mike probably just didn’t read his handbook on what not to do as a black star.”

I truly believe that Jamie is sincere in his belief that the quarterback is not being given a fair shake, but the next statement makes completely no sense.

“I know that cruelty to animals is bad, but sometimes people shoot people and kill people and don’t get time,” Jamie continued. “I think in this situation, he really didn’t know the extent of it, so I always give him the benefit of the doubt.”

Foxx is so misinformed. There are a lot of GREAT BLACK FOOTBALL PLAYERS who know not to make bad choices. He actually said this “stuff” with a smile on his face? THIS IS NOT FUNNY. Vick may have had athletic success and financial success, but he did not have moral success or ethical success. He is a sad liar who pleaded guilty but won't apologize. PATHETIC.

Hunting involves WILD animals and it is supposed to keep the population under control. I am not in favor of it–but it IS different. Dogs are domesticated. Vick “executed” dogs!!! This bastard HUNG them and DROWNED them!!!! He is a sick individual–but sadly he is not alone. He should be made an example–not because he is black (that’s a ridiculous premise) but because he had funded & participated in a cruel, illegal and sick thing.

Later,
Kenaz

Monday, August 20, 2007

Columnist Kevin Werner needs to get help

Hamilton Community News columnist Kevin Werner needs to take a few sensitivity courses before his dumb witted opinions do serious damage to either his career or those they are targeted at.

On August 10th Mr. Werner wrote an article in which he described black Liberal candidate Nerene Virgin as a tar baby. Virgin, a former CBC Newsworld journalist, was hand-picked to run in the Hamilton East-Stoney Creek riding.

His column, headlined Into the Briar Patch, compared the situation to the famous American Uncle Remus folk tale.

"You'd think the Progressive Conservatives and the NDP were lurking behind a tree like Br'er Fox anxiously enticing the cocky and arrogant Br'er Rabbit, or in this case the Hamilton East-Stoney Creek provincial Liberals, to make a grab for the Tar Baby in the road,"
he wrote. He later referred to a failed Liberal candidate as a "bland white male."

The slur is not only offensive to the black community, but to all people of the greater Hamilton area. It is unfathomable, in this day and age, to consider that such crap could be passed off as journalism. It was only a few months ago that broadcaster Don Imus lost his job for uttering similar racial slurs. Clearly, that lesson on social values was lost on the small mind of Kevin Werner.

I truly believe in freedom of speech and welcome all forms of opinion but freedom is a double edged sword that must be handled with care. Mr. Werner has a responsibility to adhere to a moral and ethical code of conduct. In this circumstance, he has abused that freedom and shunned his responsibility.

Hamilton Community News offered this apology,
Hamilton Community News apologizes to our readers, the citizens of Hamilton and provincial Liberal Party candidate Nerene Virgin for a column which appeared in the Aug. 10th issue of our newspapers.
Contained in the column, which dealt with the Hamilton East-Stoney Creek Liberal nomination race, was a term that has racist connotations. The phrase is deeply offensive - both to our community and our company - and it should never have been used.
The writer did not understand the racist implications of this historical term, or the offence that it was certain to provoke.
We apologize without reservation for publication of this material. We will be reviewing our internal processes to ensure an error like this does not happen again.


I wonder what type of action would be taken if someone was to attach a misguided opinion to Mr. Werner, alluding to his German ancestry and the era when this type of opinion was poisoning the minds of way to many people?

Later,
Kenaz

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Hamilton's uphill war on pollution

Hamilton will always have an uphill fight in an effort to win the war on environmental pollution. That's just the nature of the beast for a city heavy relied on industrial business. It still smarts though; when every time it looks like Hamilton is waging a strong front we get kicked back. Today's news is indicative how aggravating things can be.

Premier Dalton McGuinty Ontario government will finally pay their promised $30 million share toward the clean-up of Hamilton Harbour’s tainted Randle Reef. The harbour bottom is tainted with coal tar and heavy metal residue, largely as a result of decades of steel making.

All we need now is for the federal and municipal governments to cough up their one third $30 million dollar shares.

And now the bad news,

The toxic substance that contaminated Spencer Creek following the fire at Biederman Packaging in Dundas was confirmed as being Diainon. A highly poisonous chemical to birds, fish and wildlife and illegal for use in Canada, except for agricultural purpose.

The company owner trying to do damage control, came up with this gem, "The stuff we make here is all for home and garden use ... There was no serious escape of any nature." oops!

The technical director for Biedermann, covering his ass said the owner must have misspoken because the diazinon is used for agricultural customers. Adding that only a couple of skids where on sight.

The Environment Ministry has confirmed that run-off samples taken from within the building contained diazinon. On the day of the fire, a water reading taken at the Mill Street outfall to Spencer Creek found 720 micrograms of diazinon per litre. At the north building of the packaging plant, another reading showed 1,900 micrograms.

The lethal concentration to kill 50 per cent of rainbow trout in a given area is between 2,600 and 3,200 micrograms of diazinon per litre. (source The Hamilton Spectator)

So that means a quarter of trout in Spencer Creek are potentially dead, not to mention the many plants that the remaining fish feed on. This is not a small problem that can be swept under the proverbial rug, Spencer Creek is a vital link in the chain of this areas fragile ecosystem and any amount of contamination can destroy it forever.

Later,
Kenaz

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Hamiltonian's rally in support of Dieppe Vets

Sickened by the vandalizing of the Dieppe monument, Hamiltonians and city officials showed their pride and thanks for the local veterans promising to repair the lakefront memorial.

Not only will the 10-inch bronze crown-and-bugle patch vandals ripped from the cairn's north face sometime in the past week or two be replaced. As well, city officials gave a gift to the veterans in the form of a pledge to pave an adjacent parking lot and repair cracks that have appeared in the concrete wall and foundation of the four-year-old, $420,000 tribute to the sacrifices of the Royal Hamilton Light Infantry.

I hope the degenerates who vandalized and thus spit on so many heros of Dieppe are happy for now. Hopefully when they are caught justice will be served, harshly and coldly. A proper tribute to that fateful day in 1942.

A memorial ceremony will be held Sunday marking the 65th anniversary of the battle.

Later,
Kenaz

Tuesday, August 07, 2007

Three year old child offered free on Internet classified

This post is for the unknown person who posted a classified ad on Saturday using the free classified ad site www.kijiji.ca offering a three-year-old boy free to a good home. After the post had about 40 hits before it was suddenly removed at noon after a sharp eyed Pediatric nurse spotted the ad and alerted Hamilton police and the Children's Aid Society.

While the ad was a hoax or a desperate appeal for help, this person NEEDS SERIOUS HELP!!! and hopefully serious jail time if this is their idea of a joke!

The Ad,
CHILD FOR ADOPTION

Price: Free.

Location: Hamilton.

Date listed: 04-Aug-07

"I want to adopt the baby out to any happy and lovely family. I have been able to take care of him for three years now and i have provide everything he has ever needed in his life but now i want to adopt him out to any happy family because i really do not have enough to provide him the life he needs. I will only release him to a Christian home he really needs to be with the people who loves him and will not like anything more than having brother or sisters. please if interested, get back to me for more infors"

I'm no writing expert or psychologist but, guessing from the bad grammar and typos, IE "using small i" I believe this person is in desperate straits and a child only complicates matters. Hopefully this person can be convinced to turn themselves in and get the help if not for themselves than the child. Then they can be reunited with their child equipped with the parenting skills than will bring harmony too their lives.

God bless,
Kenaz

Monday, August 06, 2007

Colorado sushi restaurant takes a swing at Bonds

As Barry Bonds pushes for home run No. 756 to break one of baseball's most hallowed records, a Colorado sushi restaurant is celebrating the man who set the record, Hank Aaron.

Hapa Sushi Grill ran a half-page ad last Thursday in the satirical weekly "The Onion" that read "Congratulations Hank Aaron on 755 home runs." At the bottom of the page, the ad(below) continues: "Organic beef and chicken, no added steroids."



Needless to say I won't be watching the game. Bonds is an arrogant man who shows he truly doesn't care about the fans, unlike Aaron who was true gentleman and gave to his fans much more than his records. We will never know how many homers Bonds hit that where directly aided by the steroids, no more than we will know how many where hit off bad pitchers. Records are made to be broken, unfortunately the killing of this record can be likened to watching Darth Vader kill Obe Won Kenobi.

Later,
Kenaz

Sunday, August 05, 2007

Panhandling pariahs

An incident on Wednesday in Vancouver proves that cops need to start getting tough on these "bums" that pray on our forgiveness. The incident in question involves the "cowardly" attack on a 79-year-old man.

Vancouver police said a panhandler robbed and assaulted the 79-year-old man inside a church. As he comes out, the senior more than generously $5 to the panhandler. Quite a hit to the average pensioner's wallet. The "scum" is not happy with that and that's when he grabs the seniors wallet, throws him on the ground and goes to get the wallet. He takes some quantity of money out of it and takes off.

Canadians need to stop doling out their hard earned cash for panhandlers, addicts, and drunks to continue their lifestyle and feed their habits.

Yes, government cuts have left fewer social programs to deal with this issue, but that doesn't excuse the increasing numbers; especially those under 25 years of age; because it is an easy lifestyle if you don't mind a few creature discomforts.
Who's fault is that?

There is no question that the government is to blame for much of the problem by cutting social programs over the years. But that does not change the fact that there ARE plenty of temp jobs out there and there ARE alternatives for many. And those that are not capable of holding a job or changing their lifestyle need to be in a care situation somewhere off the street.

This is a proverbial "500lbs. gorilla on our backs" that needs to be dealt with and judging by the number of people who flood the call in shows and letters to the editor who express how fed up with this crap they are, tough measures are long overdue. Hard working, tax paying citizens DO NOT deserve to have to deal with this every time they walk down the street.

As the bible states "give them a fish, feed them for a day, teach them how to fish, feed them for life. Giving them ANYTHING will not help!

Tough measures are the only solution, if they won't use the services we provide to clean themselves up and get meaningful employment, then arrest them for vagrancy, harassment, and force them into treatment, before it leads to more serious crimes.

I DO NOT give money to panhandlers, EVER. Why enable their poor choices and drug addiction. If you wish to give money to their cause, charities like the Salvation Army and the good Shepherd are good choices.


Later,
Kenaz

Thursday, August 02, 2007

Support Our Canadian Troops, they deserve it

The men and women of the Canadian Forces have demonstrated time and again that they will rise to any challenge. Whether you agree or disagree with the Canadian Government to include our troops in combat roles overseas, please read the following and listen to this haunting song. The link to download is included at the bottom. Our troops in Afghanistan deserve our support.

Ode to the Canadian Soldiers
(MacPhee, Schram, Howe)

One bright sunny day I had time on my hands
thinking of the troops, in Afghanistan
realizing what you, are going through
I decided to write this ode to you

To the Princess Patricia’s and the RCR’s
The Royal Van Doos, Dragoons and Hussars
you’re the proud men and women in Canada’s force
fighting for freedom and staying the course

with helmets, packs, flaks and fatigues
you trudge through the sands, of uncertainty
on your shoulder you wear the Canadian Flag
and fight for the rights of every woman and man

We haven’t forgotten less recognized groups
Who work night and day, in support of our troops
to the Medics, REME’s and engineer crews
to the Ordnance Corps, to name just a few

To the Princess Patricia’s and the RCR’s
The Royal Van Doos, Dragoons and Hussars
you’re the proud men and women in Canada’s force
fighting for freedom and staying the course

Everyone at home should give 3 hip-hoorays
to the brave men and women who wear the berets
we hope that you will, all keep safe and sound
and pray that you’ll soon, be homeward bound

To the Princess Patricia’s and the RCR’s
The Royal Van Doos, Dragoons and Hussars
you’re the PROUD men and women in Canada’s force
fighting for freedom and staying the course

To the Princess Patricia’s and the RCR’s
The Royal Van Doos, Dragoons and Hussars
you’re the BRAVE men and women in Canada’s force
fighting for freedom and staying the course

From the Hamilton Spectator,

Three Burlington friends are tuned up to make a difference for Canadian men and women serving in Afghanistan and their families at home.

They've put together a song in support of the troops but about the only place it's getting played is on Armed Forces Radio in Afghanistan.

Ode To The Canadian Soldier is on the DND playlist for the last month because they sent a copy to Canadian Chief of Defence Staff General Rick Hillier a while back and he liked it. He even sent the musicians a letter telling them how much the song is "appreciated."

Artists at the top of the charts need not fear John MacPhee, 71, Brad Howe and Paul Schram, both 45, who collectively refer to themselves as Mirage. They aren't in it for fame and fortune.

They're just hoping to get the tune out on the air, sell a few CDs and donate a little money to Hillier's military families fund.

"Maybe we can help somebody's family ... raise a little money for that," says MacPhee, the owner of Burlington Fence on the North Service Road.

MacPhee, who "fiddles around a lot," came up with the tune on his violin a while back. It reflects his Celtic roots on Prince Edward Island and the urge to salute the military and their families honed in his own years with the 2nd Battalion, Canadian Guards between 1955 and 1958.

"This isn't about the war," growls MacPhee. "It's about sayin' thanks to people."

MacPhee told Schram, a Burlington Fence employee and a longtime basement band drummer and keyboardist, about the idea. Schram loved it and brought in his old Nelson High School band buddy Brad Howe to help, a videographer with some good sound equipment.

Between the three of them they had Ode knocked off in about a week.

The tune is haunting and from the heart. And like many songs that grab the listener's ear fast, it was written in no time flat.

Schram and Howe have written a couple of dozen songs over the years.

MacPhee has never done anything like this before. "I was fiddling around on my violin and telling Paul and we just sat down and wrote a song about soldiers in Afghanistan," he says.

Schram and Howe figured the trio "had something" right away because everyone knows someone who knows someone who's "over there."

Now they're trying to get the song played so folks will hear it, maybe buy it and $1 from each $7 CD will go to the military's families fund. They sent it to CBC Radio in Toronto. No luck. They shipped one to the CBC in St. John's NL and scored a play and a radio interview with MacPhee Monday.

"I know it was the right thing to do when a World War Two veteran who'd heard about it and seen the lyrics came into my shop to buy one," says MacPhee.

"I asked him if he wanted me to play it for him and he says 'No, I don't want to cry here in front of you.'"

Later,
Kenaz

Tuesday, July 24, 2007

The Introvert partII-10 Ways to keep an introvert happy

If you want my attention, money or my loyalty here is my top ten ways you as a marketer or person can keep me and other introverts from wishing bad things would happen to you.

1.Don't invade my personal space-I don't like interruptions, uninvited visits or phone calls. I hate telemarketers, so much, my old answering machine message stated "If you are family, leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as possible, if you are trying to sell me something, hang up now!" It was quite effective, but a bit long. Anyway back to my point, extroverts will take the call, listen to your shpeel, politely tell you their not interested, four times! Then hang up, huff, puff, hit the high blood pressure button, yell, and curse the devil. Introverts get call display, get an answering machine and have your number blocked. Also they have no qualms whatsoever about hanging up on you or closing the door in your face. I'm not your friend I don't care if you think I'm rude.

2.Intoverts are info junkies-I would rather read those stupid ads on a bus than listen to someone yak non stop about their favourite ways to get drunk for fifteen minutes. So listen up marketers, put ads on buses that are interesting. Forget the booze ads, try ones that promote literacy and the arts. Or just try to sell me something I or the guy telling the dumb story can use mouthwash and deordarant.

3.I'm an introvert, just because I have an intent look on my face and don't say anything while you talk, it doesn't mean I'm brain dead!-Just because you talked to me doesn't mean I care a damn about what you have to offer. Make your point, and make it quick, if I'm interested I take your reading material and study it and get back to you if it interests me. This point is expecially for you religious groups who see fit to bug you at 8:00am on a Sunday in the middle of January. While not getting the hint to remove your foot from my door so I can close it and keep my heat in. You insist on wasting my time on stupid querries like do you think their is room in the world for more than one religious deity. Um, yes! You intolerant Judas goat!

4.The cute act doesn't cut it cookie!- Just because introverts tend to internalize and keep their personalities under raps, doesn't mean we don't have one. So don't act like a chihuahua on crack. Don't be giggly, peppy, over positive, enthusiastic or act like you just took the Tony Little motivation home course. Instead, be polite, know your stuff, get to the point, leave written material or menu and get lost.

5.Don't ASS-U-ME-As the old saying goes, or you the extrovert may end up getting my goat and looking like the donkey. Just because you may or may not hang out with important people and throw their names around like water, I don't care, it doesn't make me jealous because I don't know these people. Just because intoverts see no reason to window dress their egos like a two bit hooker and are willing to risk not getting ahead in the company because they aren't agressive in selling themselves, that doesn't mean they are losers, it just means me have the patience to wait until our skills sell themselves.

6.Once we make up our minds, that's it!-This means N O H Y P E. Not now! Not ever! Not only does brow beating not work, it is exhausting to introverts because we give energy while extroverts suck energy. When I get tired from hearing the same stupid thing over and over, I get irratable and annoyed. To quote Popeye, "I'se give, till I kansk take no more!" Than I start grabbing for the spinach!

7.Introverts are greatly afraid of making mistakes in public and don't like being humiliated-If you have something to say to me of a sensative or personal nature, do this in private. Give clear instructions and a demonstration of what you want. Then leave it with me and go! Don't hover over me. No matter how confident in my abilities I am you will make me feel like a child again.

8.Introverts hate small talk-With a passion! If you would like to make an excellent first impression, be polite and come quickly to the point. Above all, don't ask personal questions and by that I mean things that are none of your business, like where do you live, I don't want to invite you to my house.

9.Introverts hate rambling phone calls and cell phones are a neccessary evil not gods creation-Don't phone me and yak on about what your kids did in kindergarten, what you had for dinner or your beef with the hydro company. Surprise! I don't care! If I need to contact you, the introvert is an excellent writer of their thoughts, I will email you with a percise question and I expect the same in the form of a response.

Oh, please don't give me your facebook nickname, I'm not into instant chat and I don't want to be your buddy. I believe in the old ways of decorum when communicating, I hate bad grammer and stupid short hand, don't give me "lol" or I'll give you "wtf!".

While I'm on a role if I'm talking to you and your cell phone goes off, don't expect me to stand their while you yak. I'll get back to you when your not so busy.

10.Introverts say what they mean-If you haven't guessed. Please feel right at home and ad a comment if you wish. I may respond. Wink.

Later,
Kenaz

Sunday, July 22, 2007

The myth of the "anti-social" Introvert

The trait of Extroversion-Introversion is a key stone of human personality. Extroverts are gregarious, assertive, and generally seek out excitement. Introverts, in contrast, are more reserved, less outgoing, and less sociable. They are not necessarily asocial, but they tend to have smaller circles of friends, and are less likely to thrive on making new social contacts.

Most people mistakenly believe that an extrovert is a person who is friendly and outgoing. The proverbial "life of the party". While that may be true, that is not the true meaning of extraversion. Essentially, an extravert is a person who becomes energized when in contact with other people; while an introvert is a person who finds the energy within themselves.

Extroverts tend to "fade" when alone and can easily become bored without other people around. When given the chance, an extravert will talk with someone else rather than sit alone and think. Extraverts tend to think as they speak, unlike introverts who are far more likely to think before speaking.

Extroversion is defined as "the act, state, or habit of being predominantly concerned with and obtaining gratification from what is outside the self" according to Websters Dictionary. Extroverts tend to enjoy human interactions and to be enthusiastic, talkative, assertive, and gregarious. They take pleasure in activities that involve large social gatherings, such as parties, community activities, public demonstrations, and business or political groups. An extraverted person is likely to enjoy time spent with people and find less reward in time spent alone.

Introversion is "the state of or tendency toward being wholly or predominantly concerned with and interested in one's own mental life". Introverts tend to be quiet, low-key, deliberate, and relatively non-engaged in social situations. They take pleasure in solitary activities such as reading, writing, watching movies, listening to music, inventing, and designing. An introverted person is likely to enjoy time spent alone and find less reward in time spent with large groups of people (although they may enjoy one-to-one or one-to-few interactions with close friends).

According to Carl Jung, introversion and extraversion refer to the direction of psychic energy. If a person’s energy usually flows outwards, he or she is an extravert, while if this energy normally flows inwards, this person is an introvert. Extroverts feel an increase of perceived energy when interacting with a large group of people, but a decrease of energy when left alone. Conversely, introverts feel an increase of energy when alone, but a decrease of energy when surrounded by a large group of people.

Extroversion-introversion is normally measured by self-report. For example the Myers-Briggs Personality Type test. In her studies of people and extensive reading of Jung's theories, Isabel Briggs Myers concluded there were four primary ways people differed from one another. She labeled these differences "preferences" - drawing a similarity to "hand preferences" to illustrate that although we all use both of our hands, most of us have a preference for one over the other and "it" takes the lead in many of the activities in which we use our hands.

The first set of mental preferences relates to how people "Perceive" or take in information. In the Myers MBTI Type Code, this is the second letter. "S" Those who prefer Sensing Perception favor clear, tangible data and information that fits in well with their direct here-and-now experience. "N" In contrast, those who prefer Intuition Perception are drawn to information that is more abstract, conceptual, big-picture, and represents imaginative possibilities for the future.

The second set of mental preferences identifies how people form "Judgments" or make decisions. In the Myers MBTI Type Code, this is the third letter.

"T" Those who prefer Thinking Judgment have a natural preference for making decisions in an objective, logical, and analytical manner with an emphasis on tasks and results to be accomplished. "F" Those whose preference is for Feeling Judgment make their decisions in a somewhat global, visceral, harmony and value-oriented way, paying particular attention to the impact of decisions and actions on other people.

There are two other mental preferences that are part of the Myers-Briggs model: Energy Orientation and Outer World Orientation. The first one is the dimension of personality discovered by Carl Jung that became widely adopted by general psychology: Extraversion-Introversion. The second is the dimension of personality that is Myers' unique contribution to Jung's theory, an element she inferred from Jung's work but was not clearly addressed as an essential component of his theory of types. This is the style or orientation one uses in dealing with the external world: Judging or Perceiving.

Energy Orientation pertains to the two forms of Energy Consciousness each of us experiences on a daily basis. We occupy two mental worlds: one is inwardly turned, the other is outward. One of these worlds is our elemental source of energy; the other secondary. In the Myers MBTI Type Code, this is the first letter.

"I" Those who prefer Introversion draw their primary energy from the inner world of information, thoughts, ideas, and other reflections. When circumstances require an excessive amount of attention spent in the "outside" world, those preferring Introversion find the need to retreat to a more private setting as if to recharge their drained batteries.

"E" In contrast, those who prefer Extraversion are drawn to the outside world as their elemental source of energy. Rarely, if ever, do extraverted preference people feel their energy batteries are "drained" by excessive amounts of interaction with the outside world. They must engage the things, people, places and activities going on in the outside world for their life force.

While the E-I dimension was Jung's gift to general psychology, unfortunately it has been widely distorted into a well-unwell scale with characteristics of Introversion being cast in a negative light and conversely characteristics of Extraversion cast in a positive light. This cultural bias frequently leads natural introverted types to mis-identify their primary preference as Extraversion.

Extraverted Orientation relates to which mental preference one relies upon in dealing with/relating with the Outside World. It is the mental function that takes the lead in the Extraverted portion of a person's personality. When this leading function is one of the two Judging mental preferences, then this orientation is called Judging. When this leading function is one of the two Perceiving mental preferences, then this orientation is called Perceiving. In the Myers MBTI Type Code, this is the fourth letter.

"J" Those who prefer Judging rely upon either their T or F preference to manage their outer life. This typically leads to a style oriented towards closure, organization, planning, or in some fashion managing the things and or people found in the external environment. The drive is to order the outside world. While some people employ an assertive manner, others "ordering touch" - with respect to people - may be light.

"P" Those who prefer Perceiving rely upon either their S or N preference to run their outer life. This typically results in an open, adaptable, flexible style of relating to the things and people found in the outside world. The drive is to experience the outside world rather than order it; in general lack of closure is easily tolerated.

For person's whose Energy Orientation preference is E, the Extraverted Orientation (J or P) points to their dominant function, ergo "what you see is what you get." But for those whose Energy Orientation favors I, their Extraverted Orientation (J or P) is opposite their dominant function. Thus the four IxxJ types - whose extraverted style is Judging - are actually Perceiving types on the inside! Thus their extraverted "personality" can mask their primary nature. Likewise the four IxxP types - whose extraverted style is Perceiving and thus tend to have an open style - are actually on the inside Judging oriented!

After taking the Myers Briggs Personality Type? test I wasn't all that surprised with the results. As an introvert, I am

dependable, reliable and trustworthy, I thrive to belong to a solid organisation or employer that are reasonable in their goals and loyal to their employees. I feel useful when my roles and responsibilities are clearly established and enjoy clear feedback on productivity in tangible ways. I'm extremely modest, I prefer tradition and convention over extravagance, I like sensible clothing, I prefer thrift stores and am very careful and wise with both money and possessions.

When I'm given a project, I will see it to the end, sometimes over obsessively though. I manage time well and pretty realistic about how much time and resources will be needed. The only draw back is that if I am given an hour to do something I find it a personal goal to do it in half the time, and then get really anxious if the next task isn't immediately available. This can lead to a feeling that I am doing more than an extrovert who finds way to do a task more slowly.

I don't like change, I prefer familiarity and calm. I have stayed within a few kilometers of the neighbourhood I was raised in all my life. When I purchase something, it is after careful consideration; rarely will I buy something without having a need or use for it. Many of my possessions are personal gifts that may not have cost a lot, rather they where given out of love, and those are the ones that I cherish the most.

I tend to remember specific facts that are necessary in their day-to-day life at work and at home. I remember facts by connecting them with past experiences that have been proven trustworthy.

"A fact once experienced may be the product of circumstance and happenstance; it is not in and of itself reliable. When an introverted sensing type hears an idea, they rummage through reams of archived facts to find an experience that provides information for the relevance and realism of an idea. When an introverted sensing type utters, "It's never been done!" they are saying that no information about the relevance or usefulness of the idea is available to them. They tend to shy away from surprises and what is perceived as unnecessary change."

One of the biggest myth about introverts is "their must be something wrong with them" This couldn't be more wrong, the biggest difference between introverts and extroverts is how they react to stress.

Some people don’t understand how introverts react to stress. Because of this, they think that all introverts are “neurotic” or mentally ill. Let me explain why this is a misperception.

When extroverts are stressed they “act out”. They may smoke, drink, yell and scream, throw a punch, stomp around or generally raise the roof. Although this behavior is difficult and even obnoxious, it is not considered “mentally ill”.

When introverts are stressed, they withdraw. They do this to recharge their batteries, not because they are neurotic. Introverts need time alone to bring order back into their inner world. They give energy to others and receive energy when alone.

Let me reiterate some key points about 10% to 25% of the population who may have been told as children to "get out more" or "don't be so quiet". Introverts are territorial. Someone cannot take your seat, move your stuff, lean on your desk, ignore your closed door or borrow your clothes without making you very angry. Introverts need time alone to recharge their batteries. If denied time alone, you may become irritable and depressed.

Introverts value privacy. When your boundaries are disregarded, when someone has a loud personal conversation on their cell phone in your captive presence, such as waiting in the checkout line at the grocery store, you can be annoyed and offended.

Introverts fear failure in public and experience deep humiliation because of it. If the teacher grabs you for a demonstration of a new skill or your spouse puts you on the spot to put a bicycle together it can be extremely stressful. Introverts prefer to communicate in writing. They may feel exhausted by too much verbal communication that “isn’t going anywhere”. Introverts hate small talk. Introverts like to be prepared. If rushed to present a solution or opinion, they may be extremely uncomfortable and sometimes refuse to do so at all.

Just because you see someone or work with someone who internalizes their feelings and aren't the one who is the first to lead the team, it doesn't mean they don't have ideas to share. Sometimes the "quiet man" is the one who has the most to share. It is theorized that Albert Einstein was an introvert.

Later,
Kenaz